Staying in your own lane is not only crucial to your own sense of self, but has the added benefit of making you more appealing to your man.
I don't know of anyone personally who is trying to navigate when to say, "I hate that ex-wife of yours! After a few months and fitness gains I started to think about hiking, I live in a large state I'm now exploring, hiking, climbing and camping and I'm forunate to live near the ocean so I swim every day too.