Despite my repeated and direct questions about what to expect on the wedding night, the best advice I got from my trusted friends, family, and even doctors was always along the lines of "It'll all work out," or "Don't worry, you'll figure it out," or my personal favorite, "Sex within marriage is great! Thank you so much.
This means there is no single definition for lesbian sex, nor any specific sex act that all lesbians enjoy.
I even decided to refrain from kissing the man who'd become my husband until our wedding day.
It also is often pretty difficult for someone your age to get things like the healthcare you need and , or services or pre-natal care in the event of an accidental , so until you're in a place and of an age where you can always get those basics when you need them, it's really best to hold off.